Get Your Agenda Off My Body
This post was originally published Sept 03, 2009 here.
(As a note: This applies to womanism too, as womanism only fully expands the women’s rights lens to issues of race but still leaves trans women in the dust more often than not.)
I’m sure we all have a pretty good idea of the cardinal elements of feminism. Feminism, at its most simple is a movement designed to combat the effects of sexism, misogyny and the power structure and marginalization created by the patriarchy. A social reform specialization of humanism/egalitarianism, if you will.
There are certain lacks in it that are understandable. It doesn’t specifically handle a lot of men’s issues (mostly because its hands are full with women’s issues). It doesn’t directly address things like race and disability (although some feminists try to). It doesn’t directly address general trans issues (although it should be addressing transmisogyny as that’s basically sexism squared.)
There’s also womanism that attempts to address the racial issues that intersect on the bodies of WOC.
There are many subcategories, branch offs and connected zones of feminism. Gender deconstructionism, rad fem, essentialist feminism, etc. The ones I’m going to concentrate on right now is gender deconstructionism and rad fem (and some of this is also extendable to womanism).
There is this inclination to theorize on why trans people exist. After all, we flip a lot of apple carts just by being around. This inclination doesn’t just take place in trans folk (we would naturally be curious as to our origins) but also among rad fems and gender deconstructionists. Unfortunately these attempts to figure us out usually involve a good chunk of generalization and ignorance of our experiences, mindsets, psychology and histories. But even the analysis being flawed isn’t a serious issue. Where the serious issue arises is how people decide that suddenly trans bodies and trans lives come after the agenda.
I’m sure at least some of you had read over clarifications on Dworkin’s viewpoint on the matter over at Daisy’s locale. Her views are still pretty transphobic but for her time she was quite a bit ahead. And the things she points out in as guidelines for dealing with it are words to live by.
“every transsexual has the right to survival on his/her own terms. That means every transsexual is entitled to a sex-change operation, and it should be provided by the community as one of its functions. This is an emergency measure for an emergency condition.”
Yes, certainly a product of her times, in that the wording is transsexual, surgery and binary specific (and as is abundantly clear there is a wide wide world of transgender beyond the transsexual zone, that has entirely different needs and is classified differently within the trans movement) but here, let me highlight the really important part:
“…every transsexual has the right to survival on his/her own terms.“
Allow for social change and the expansion of the world comprehension to future day where the transgender community exists (and for the purposes of this post, I’m going to operate the terms normally, so TG includes TS under the umbrella envelope, as well as nonbinaries, who have enough fucking problems as it is) and you can extend this basic statement’s intent to incorporate all those suffering from the misalignment that a gendered world at least contributes to badly:
“…every person in the TG umbrella has the right to survival on his/her/hir/their own terms”
It really doesn’t matter what you think causes the varying types of “trans-ness”. And quite obviously, even if you have a pet theory for one of the types (like why people crossdress without dysphoria or why transsexuals have dysphoria) chances are that won’t yield much on the others. And for some things (like GID, which is based on symptoms and likely multicausal) even your pet theory may not describe every case. But really, it still doesn’t matter what you think causes it, because in the end, any action you take must still honor our right to our own bodily domain and our self determination.
Any rights/social reform ideology, of any kind, that demands one group give up their basic self determination to what they do with their own bodies, is broken. Full stop. A social reform and rights movement can not hope to have the basic credibility it requires if it marginalizes another group based on its theories.
And when you interfere in things like transsexual surgeries and hormones, nonbinary self expression, crossdresser clothing choices (and etc) you are denying those groups their self determination. It is no different than a woman forced into being a housewife or forced into being a businesswoman. It is no different than the slut shamers demanding that you not have sex. But it goes even further than that. Even if you take no action, even if you don’t interfere directly, just attacking it, demanding that I (and they) live according to your theories or views is unacceptable.
When you demand that a nonbinary just step away from gender entirely or tell a transsexual woman that her surgeries are encouraging the patriarchy and demand she stop, you are impinging on self determination. And in the end denial of choice for one’s own body is against every fucking iota of what feminism and womanism stands for. Sure feminism might be specialized towards protecting women’s choices and options regarding our own bodies. Sure womanism might extend that to include race. But that basic principle of bodily domain is central to feminism and womanism, to violate it on anyone else is the worst, most heinous, most disgusting form of hypocrisy. And to stand by while it happens, to not stand against it, is just as bad.
It is a hypocrisy that wears away at the very fabric of of your movement’s credibility (for either movement). A hypocrisy that begs the question, “if you can’t honor the bodies of others, why should anyone honor yours?” This makes you as bad as the patriarchy. This makes you as bad as the enemy you fight, because you dehumanized a group that has less power than you, all because it makes you feel like you achieved something.
This is unacceptable. This makes you a shit poor feminist if you do it or allow it to happen on your watch. Same for any womanist guilty of this. This is why many trans women do not trust you. This is why even those who do trust you are wary and careful, lest we get attacked or faced with unreasonable demands too.
The responsibility lies upon you to clean up your movement (whichever one it may be). To stop the abhorrent transphobic hypocrisy and the using of our bodies for your agenda. Every single one of you shares in that responsibility. Every single one of you bears that similar burden that every single one of men bear to fight violence against women, speak out against the rape culture and break the social cycles of oppression. And for the womanists, it’s that similar burden that every single one of white folk bear to fight silencing of POC, see through the White Noise and fight the social cycles of oppression there. It’s about damn time you all starting doing what you ask of, no DEMAND, men and white folk to do for you.
Get your agenda the fuck off my body.
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