In House Harassment And Apathy: How Communities Kill Activists

29Jun10

Activists work together. Very rarely is there a lone wolf thing going on with activists. We can be pretty social (mostly by necessity, trying to do this shit alone is hard). Quite often a community forms around bloggers, lobbyists, small organizations and non profits. This community coordinates the efforts of individual activists, aids them, supports [...]

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Tags: ableism, abuse, bullshit, bullying, cissexism, disability, fuck this fuckery, gender, in house hate, rage, sexual harassment, trolling

It Still Cuts Like A Knife

10Dec09

Trigger Warning: This post describes a period of intense physical and emotional abuse by an ex significant other, including being raped by that same ex significant other. These descriptions, while not graphic, could still be intensely triggering for some individuals. Please read with discretion.

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Tags: abuse, rape, sexual assault, violence

Drag Kinging, Family Drama and Trauma

22Sep09

This post was originally published July 07, 2009 here. I’m going to delay the identities post for a bit longer because the time I need to put into it simply isn’t forthcoming right now. My duties to this game’s development (and the fact that it’s basically a paid 40 hour week each week) are just [...]

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Tags: abuse, drama, family, genderfuckery, sexual assault, transgender, trauma