Posts Tagged ‘drama’
Some Words On “Making Peace”
Edited for clarifying links to the AMO communication style post. Making peace is great. No one wants to be at war constantly. The battles are tiring, there’s always casualties, and often you’re stuck doing things that you may not be pleased with to win. And then there’s the people who confuse “making peace” with “stop […]
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Tags: cissexism, drama, infighting, issues, kyriarchy, marginalization, transgender
MORE update! Turns out that Bil never really learned the meaning of too little, too late. Seriously? It took massive fisking and your own contributors threatening to leave for you to realize that trans hate language wasn’t okay? Really? It took your fauxpology being rejected blogosphere-wide? I really can’t see much sincerity here. It looks […]
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Tags: bullshit, cissexism, drama, fuck this fuckery, rage, society, the fail it burns, transgender
This post was originally published Sept 20, 2009 here. Oh look an Intermission Post.
Filed under: personal | 4 Comments
Tags: bullshit, cissexism, drama, fuck this fuckery, intermission, random
This post was originally published July 07, 2009 here. I’m going to delay the identities post for a bit longer because the time I need to put into it simply isn’t forthcoming right now. My duties to this game’s development (and the fact that it’s basically a paid 40 hour week each week) are just […]
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Tags: abuse, drama, family, genderfuckery, sexual assault, transgender, trauma
Intermission!
This post was originally published June 24, 2009 here. As I work on writing the blog post regarding identity labeling (and I assure you, I’m putting all my efforts into avoiding making this offensive or confrontational, because I know a lot of people get offended or feel attacked when discussing how identity labels are applied) […]
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Tags: drama, family, intermission, legal, random, transgender
No.
This post was originally published June 07, 2009 here. I will not pander to those who see me as a role or purpose in their lives. I am a person. If you can not accept my layers then you have no worth to me. If you act as though your comfort, your reputation is automatically […]
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Tags: drama, expectations, family, issues, transgender
As requested, the letter
This post was originally published May 05, 2009 here. Some people on WiG requested the letter I sent be put up because some of them were wondering if my inclination to speak very scientifically about things had a poor impact on how he took the information. There’s a good chunk science speak in the center, […]
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Tags: drama, family, issues, transgender
This post was originally published May 4, 2009 here. Update: While I feel entirely justified in venting about this when comparing my letter to this email, a few people on WiG did raise a worry in me that my dad could find this blog. While I doubt it would change his supportiveness (I am effectively […]
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Tags: drama, expectations, family, issues, transgender
This post was originally published May 03, 2009 here. Sometimes the trans community infuriates me. It isn’t the majority of the time and likely not even a majority of the people. But this vocal mid sized minority manages to regularly fuck up quite a few safe spaces I and many others have tried to stay […]
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Tags: drama, expectations, identity, infighting, issues, transgender
